Islam and the Manufacture of Low Self-Esteem:
How a Theology of Submission Produces a Politics of Victimhood and Violence
Islam does not merely offer a spiritual framework. It engineers the self. And it does so through a system that is simultaneously absolutist in doctrine and totalitarian in scope. To understand how it produces a persistent culture of grievance, one must first understand what kind of self Islam allows to exist.
I. The Islamic Self: Humiliation as Theology
Islam begins with the premise that the individual is not free but owned. The Arabic word “Islam” itself means submission, not peace. In Islamic anthropology, man is not created free and dignified by nature. His dignity is conditional, earned only through unquestioning surrender to the will of Allah as mediated by prophetic command. Islam does not permit intrinsic worth. Instead, it binds value to compliance.
This creates what clinical psychology would call a shame-based identity. The Muslim is trained from childhood to see themselves as fundamentally deficient and perpetually watched. The child internalizes the gaze of the divine lawgiver, every action scrutinized, every thought monitored, every independent impulse framed as rebellion. The result is a crippled ego, a self incapable of autonomy, self-reflection, or dissent.
Where Christianity posits a fallen but redeemable man, and the Enlightenment sees a rational actor capable of self-governance, Islam presents a human being whose only path to safety is servitude. This is why Islamic cultures consistently rank lowest in measures of self-actualization, innovation, and personal agency. Islam doesn't suppress the ego, it pathologizes it.
II. From Internal Shame to Collective Narcissism
But what happens when millions of individuals shaped by shame need to live in the modern world, a world that demands agency, individuality, and internal stability?
They collapse inward or lash outward.
Islam has developed a survival mechanism for this: collective narcissism. When the individual Muslim feels worthless, Islam offers the ummah, a sacred group identity whose collective superiority compensates for personal inferiority.
Thus, the psychological wound of shame is patched not by healing, but by externalizing blame. The individual doesn’t need to ask, “What is wrong with me?” but “Who did this to us?” The answer is always the same: the West, the Jews, the Crusaders, the colonizers, the Islamophobes.
The theological mechanism is complete. Personal weakness is masked by collective grievance. And now, every slight, every loss, every criticism can be interpreted as evidence of persecution.
III. Victimhood as Moral Capital
In this schema, victimhood becomes a virtue. The Muslim is always the oppressed. Even when attacking, he is resisting. Even when slaughtering, he is avenging. Even when he conquers, he is restoring justice. Islam has sacralized victimhood by framing the Muslim world as under eternal assault from kufr (disbelief), and thus, any reaction, even genocide, can be coded as self-defense.
Jihad is not simply a political tool. It is the violent compensation for civilizational inferiority. It restores the illusion of power. It transforms humiliation into dominance, temporarily.
Hence, violence becomes psychologically necessary. It affirms the illusion that the ummah is strong, even when it is socially, intellectually, and morally bankrupt.
This is how entire generations raised on theological self-contempt can become convinced that killing civilians is an act of justice. Their theology never allowed them the tools to resolve shame through reason, only to burn it out with blood.
IV. Islam in the West: Imported Pathology
When Islam enters the West, it carries this pathology with it. But it no longer dominates, so it mutates.
Muslim communities in the West adopt the posture of marginalized victims, tapping into the leftist narrative of “oppression.” They import grievance but mask it as identity politics. Suddenly, jihad becomes “resistance,” Sharia becomes “religious freedom,” and critics of Islam are labeled “racists.”
Western liberals, terrified of moral judgment, amplify this narrative. Islam now weaponizes its inferiority complex using the West’s own moral language.
But here’s the result:
Low self-esteem cultures demand submission from high self-esteem civilizations.
And the West, riddled with post-colonial guilt, is giving it.
This cycle will not end by treating jihad as a political aberration. Nor will it end by throwing money at development or blaming foreign policy.
The root is theological. The damage is psychological. The consequences are civilizational.
Until Islam is named, not “Islamism,” not “extremism,” not “radicalism,” but Islam, this cycle of shame, victimhood, and violence will continue. And every Western effort to appease it will only feed it.
The West cannot afford to absorb a doctrine that creates broken people and teaches them that their wounds are someone else’s fault. It cannot coexist with an ideology that deifies submission, moralizes resentment, and licenses bloodshed in the name of justice.
This is a masterpiece. Profoundly thought, originally conceived and beautifully and powerfully written. It clarifies many points ,for which I'm grateful. I also thought of the fatalism that seems to plague Muslim thinking, at least amidst the masses, as the bondage to "Allah's will "stops personal initiative. A second thought whilst reading is the aberrant exploitation of paranoid preemptive defense claims of the Al-Aqsa mosque. A rallying cry today to shed blood with the mosque's purity pretext as it was centuries ago, as if the mosque were about to be " raped" by the kufr "demonic" Jews. I am not a Freudian, but there would seem to be a very complex sexual dynamic in the minds of Muslims, expressed in the symbolism of the forever imagined profanation of the mosque, and I have often wondered how Muslims, particularly boys, are raised from childhood.
Dan - beautifully written. I am curious to hear your thoughts regarding Hussein Aboubakr Mansour's thesis that what we call Islam today is actually a collection of bad European ideas, mostly German, that emerged in the 18th century and devoured Europe. These ideas were imbibed by Muslim reformist intellectuals in Cairo and Beirut in the 19th century, given a thin coating of Arabic terminology to appear authentic, and we're subsequently let loose to devour the Middle East.
The thesis filled in a missing piece for me regarding why the so-called "red-green alliance" seems to have emerged independently in so many different countries where Muslims have settled and made common cause with the radical left - it's not a marriage of convenience, it's because their worldviews actually are epistemological cousins.